Last week the girls and I took a trip to Provo to visit some friends. First stop was my friend, Kerry. She recently had back surgery and I wanted to visit her. She'd drugged herself up the night before so she could actually be out of bed and go to her dr's appointment that afternoon so I got to see her up and about. It was a very nice visit and I only wish it could have been longer. Well, that and I wish I'd actually taken a picture. She and I visited while Little One played with her boys and Ira and her newly adopted daughter, Vika, sat and didn't interact much with each other. LOL I was impressed with Vika's English. It's gotten lots better since I'd seen her last. It was so funny to listen to Ira try and interpret when Vika wouldn't understand either Kerry or me. At one point Ira turns to me and starts going off in Russian. I was going to wait until she was done before I told her she might want to try English, but she caught herself before that. Then she started in Russian again. LOL She finally got the English out eventually. :)
After Kerry's house, we headed to a park to meet my friend, Laurie Ann. Now, Laurie Ann and I have been friends since I was about 14. I lived in Michigan and she lived here. I found her name in a pen pal section of a homeschooling magazine and wrote to her. We've been friends ever since. :) The last time I saw her was right before we left for Ukraine and right after she'd had her 2nd little boy. We had a very nice picnic lunch together and visited for a little while. We were pretty boring though because her oldest kept asking when they could go home. LOL It was very good to see her!
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| Ira and Little One on the swings |
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| Ira, me, Laurie Ann, Luke and Peter. :) Little One was photographer. |
Next, we headed off to BYU to see my cute interpreter friend, Yulya. :) We Skyped with her a couple of times while we were in Ukraine so she and Ira had "met" there, but never in person. It took me almost 4 months to make it down there, but I'm so glad we finally did! She made us borscht and some breadsticks and crapes. Yummy! Well, Little One didn't really think so. LOL She didn't like borscht when Eva made it for us in Ukraine either though. I thought it was awesome!
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| Borscht |
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| Breadsticks |
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| Crapes |
After we ate we went for a walk. It was a very warm, but beautiful day. She showed Ira where all her classes are and we just enjoyed visiting. Ira spoke almost all in English, even with Yulya. As a matter of fact, Yulya said it would take a second for Ira to switch to Russian and she was a little slow with it a lot of the time. I need to speed up my Russian learning. Well, if she wants to forget it, that's fine, but if not, I'd like to help her remember it.
We had a wonderful day!
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| Ira, Yulya, me, Little One |
Since then we've had a few things going on. We saw some awesome fireworks for the 24th. We sit right by where they shoot them off. It was beautiful!
We also have some more major attitude about Ira's glasses. The girl wants contacts but is in no way responsible enough for them. Especially when her vanity won't allow her to wear the glasses so she can actually see. While I can't force the vanity out of her, I certainly don't have to cater to it. So, for everyday that she wears her glasses from waking up until going to bed she gets a dollar. When she has earned enough for contacts, she may have them. When she was told this she flipped out, started crying and saying how much she wants to go back to Ukraine and ya de ya da. She was mad and had a majorly bad attitude the rest of the night. When she woke up yesterday morning I told her if she wants her dollar for the day then she puts them on. If she didn't want the dollar, she didn't have to put them on. With an attitude, she sticks her nose up in the air (literally) and says, "No." Whatever, child. I did my part in getting you the glasses. As much as I'd like to superglue them to your head, if you're so vain that you'd rather be blind that's your own problem. What you don't get, is the privilege of taking drivers ed if you don't have the contacts completely earned by then. It's going to be a major wake-up call when all your friends are learning how to drive and you have to do something else for almost a whole year. Okay, so I really hope she realizes it's better to see before then and starts wearing them, but I have my doubts. And it's not that I have a problem with her driving with glasses on. It's that she's not responsible enough yet to be trusted behind a wheel. Hopefully that will change by the time she gets there though. Granted, she is only 13 (almost.)
So, last night she had to put non-matching pj bottoms on because her matching ones are in the mending pile. She refused. I told her I didn't care if she just came out for scriptures in her underwear with a blanket over her, but she was joining us, and she would be ready for bed. After many tears and lots more wanting Ukraine she finally put the other pj bottoms on. Then when she was trying to do her hair (who knew you needed your hair done to sleep in??) and she couldn't get an exact mirror image, she flipped out again. Holy moly. What am I going to do with her?? Is this just major hormones, or what? I didn't do this kind of thing. I've even asked my mom.